On Saturday 1 November, Apton Hall in Rochford will host a glamorous black‑tie Charity Ball in aid of Havens Hospices. Organised by Little Havens Children’s Nurse Lucy Layzell the night is in memory of her dear friend Bex Oglina, who died just 32 at Fair Havens in August 2024, and in honour of the children and families she supports every day in her nursing role.
Throughout the night there will be exciting evening entertainment plus attendees will have the opportunity to participate in a raffle with array of fantastic prizes to be won. Tickets are £65 per person, with tables still available and open to all. All proceeds will go to Havens Hospices, which provides specialist care for babies, children, and adults living with complex or incurable conditions — care Lucy sees the impact of daily through her work:
“Whether you knew Bex or not, I hope you’ll join us for a very special evening – all in support of Havens Hospices. This gala is in memory of my best friend, but also for every family who walks through the doors at Havens Hospices for a place where love, dignity, and peace are at the heart of everything.
“When Bex was diagnosed with breast cancer and there was nothing else we could do we turned to Fair Havens. Fair Havens gave Bex more than just medical care—they gave her music, cake, jigsaws, laughter, movie nights, and the dignity of being herself to the very end.
“Bex was a force of nature—bright and bold. She lit up every room and made everyone feel seen and welcome. Losing her has left a hole in my life, but organising this gala in her honour has helped me navigate grief with purpose.
“As a nurse at Little Havens, I’ve always known how vital end-of-life care is. But being on the other side—as a friend and family—has deepened that understanding. It’s not just about comfort or medicine. It’s about honouring life and making space for laughter, love, and memories, right to the very last breath.”
To book tickets, please email Lucy at Lucy.havenscharitygala@gmail.com. Or if you are a local business who would be interested in sponsorship or donating towards the raffle please get in touch at Lucy.havenscharitygala@gmail.com.
Published on 24th July 2025
