Oliver was a happy, easy-going child who grew into one of the kindest boys you could meet. His mum, Anna, describes him as “the nicest boy going,” someone who was loved by everyone and seemed to be everyone’s friend.

“There was something special about him. He felt like an old soul, like he’d lived a life before.”

At nine years old, Oliver suffered a seizure at home. A CT scan revealed a lesion and, following further investigations, the family received the devastating diagnosis of a high-grade glioma brain tumour.

“They were told Oliver had 6 to 12 months to live. The floor just fell away.”

Oliver underwent radiotherapy and chemotherapy almost immediately and later took part in clinical trials. Despite everything, he remained well for around a year and a half.

“We were really lucky – we had about a year and a half where he was really well.”

During this time, the family made the most of every opportunity. They enjoyed holidays, family trips and special days out together.

When Oliver first became unwell, Little Havens became a vital source of support.

“It’s not somewhere you ever want to be, but it became really important for us.”

Anna found support through Cassie, Little Havens Family Support Worker, while Oliver and his brother George attended art therapy and music therapy sessions.

“Oliver wanted to learn the Ukulele, and Little Havens made that happen. Ruth spent time teaching him with George by his side.”

“The hospice isn’t just a place where children come to die. It’s somewhere they come to live.”

“My favourite memories are the normal moments, the boys running around in the garden together, laughing, enjoying themselves as kids should.”

“We’ve got hand casts we did together, which I absolutely treasure.”

As Oliver’s condition progressed, the family continued caring for him at home. During this time, support from Little Havens’ Youth Worker, became especially important.

“The biggest thing was that I trusted him.”

That trust allowed Anna to step away for short periods, knowing Oliver was safe and cared for.

“I could leave the house for an hour, go for a walk, walk the dog, get some fresh air. And that was huge.”

In January, Oliver became increasingly unwell and it was no longer safe to care for him at home. After discussing it with him, the family moved to Little Havens.

“What the hospice gives you is space. You’re not just a carer anymore – you can be a parent again.”

The family initially expected to stay only a few days, but spent three weeks together at the hospice. Oliver had his own room, visitors could come and go, and the Care Team managed his symptoms while giving the family time to focus on being together.

“Someone brings you tea. Someone is there to step in. You’re not dealing with everything yourself.”

Oliver died at Little Havens on 21 February 2025, aged just 11.

“The hospice made it more manageable for us. At home it became like a hospital. Here, Oliver had his space, his comfort, and we had support.”

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Published in 2026